The work of the matchmaker consisted
of several stages:
1. The
creation of client's database of potential brides and grooms.
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Meeting with every client. Learning
of every potential bride and groom, receiving information about his occupation,
education, character, customs and expectations from the future partner.
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Searching for suitable candidates for
the client.
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Organization of communication and
dates between clients.
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Collecting feedback from the clients,
if there is a need – looking for more suitablecandidates.
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Discussing with the client his dating
experience, joint discussion of unsuccessful dates, advising useful tips for
future dates success.
The majority of dating agencies,
helping to meet Russian brides, take on it only stage "The creation of
client's database of potential brides and grooms". Agencies just simply
sell you the contacts of the girls, that as if want to marry a foreigner. I
used the phrase "as if" not by chance.
The simple selling of contacts
without any responsibility for a "quality" of contacts brings the
appearance of professional scammers.
You
often may discover the same profile and the same photos of
the girl you just communicated at the dozens other dating sites.
In fact these are scammers that just
suck money and presents from you.
It is not the only danger. Nothing
prevents from the dating agency to use phony brides that make you expend money
about paid services (letters, calling and translations).
The
necessity to sell contacts and paid services of translations bring to
appearance in some agencies fake brides.
Usually these are beautiful young ladies
of model appearance that show the interest to you. They are needed in order to
justify money you paid to the agency. After several dozens of letters and
couple of talks they disappear. The agency performed its task – you had the
opportunity to contact a beautiful woman and agency wasn't responsible that you
didn't attract any further interest from a girl. And you continue to pay
further because you smell the smell of victory – you were close to start a real
connection with gorgeous lady you weren't dare in your country.
Even if you use an agency's database
and communicate with ordinary woman without any fraudulent intentions - your
chances to find your chosen one are low and these are the reasons:
1. Generally
agency doesn't check the validity of the information provided to
you by the lady (it is not profitable for the agency to sort out
potential contacts it can sell to you).
2. The agency
doesn't help you to choose the right lady for the start of
communication. You spend a lot of time to sort out the candidates that are absolutely irrelevant
to you.
3.The main thing – the
agency is interested in process (to continue receiving money from you) and
isn't interested in the result (to marry you).
And
now read again the list of
the stages for matchmaker work and compare with work that internet dating
agency does.
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