From ancient times matchmaker performed a very important role in human society. He or she helped to create new families.
The work of the matchmaker consisted of several stages:
1. The creation of client's
database of potential brides and grooms.
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Meeting with every client. Learning of
every potential bride and groom, receiving information about his
occupation, education, character, customs and expectations from the future
partner.
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Searching for suitable candidates for
the client.
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Organization of communication and dates
between clients.
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Collecting feedback from the clients,
if there is a need – looking for more suitable candidates.
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Discussing with the client his dating
experience, joint discussion of unsuccessful dates, advising useful tips for
future dates success.
The majority of dating agencies, helping to meet Russian
brides, take on it only stage "The creation of client's database of
potential brides and grooms". Agencies just simply sell you the contacts
of the girls, that as if want to marry a foreigner. I used the phrase "as
if" not by chance.
The simple selling of contacts without any responsibility
for a "quality" of contacts brings the appearance of professional
scammers.
You often may
discover the same profile and the same photos of
the girl you just communicated at the dozens other
dating sites.
In fact these are scammers that just suck money and presents
from you.
It is not the only danger. Nothing prevents from the dating
agency to use phony brides that make you expend money about paid services
(letters, calling and translations).
The necessity to sell contacts and paid services of
translations bring to appearance in some agencies fake brides. Usually these
are beautiful young ladies of model appearance that show the interest to you.
They are needed in order to justify money you paid to the agency. After several
dozens of letters and couple of talks they disappear. The agency performed its
task – you had the opportunity to contact a beautiful woman and agency wasn't
responsible that you didn't
attract any further interest from a girl. And you
continue to pay further because you smell the smell of victory – you were close
to start a real connection with gorgeous lady you weren't dare in your country.
Even if you use an agency's database and communicate with
ordinary woman without any fraudulent intentions - your chances to find your
chosen one are low and these are the reasons:
1. Generally agency doesn't check the
validity of the information provided to you by the lady (it
is not profitable for the agency to sort out potential contacts it can sell to
you).
2. The agency doesn't help you to choose
the right lady for the start of communication. You spend a lot of
time to sort out the candidates that are absolutely irrelevant
to you.
3.The main thing – the agency is interested in
process (to continue receiving money from you) and isn't interested in the
result (to marry you).
And now read
again the list of
the stages for matchmaker work and compare with work that internet dating agency does.
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